We have decided to part ways with the way you want to conduct business on this platform. Making buyers pay for items via the middleman buy now link and then as soon as the 3 way ticket is activated you ask them to cancel so you can deal with them on discord is a violation of our terms of service and is simply wasting everyones time. If a fee is an issue, add it to your total while creating a buy now link. What you're doing appears to be baiting them into a potential scam. Your buyer didn't pay any middleman fees and doesn't have time to waste on a seller who restructures his terms.